“I prefer the time of insects to the time of stars,” Nobel laureate Wisława Szymborska wrote in her lovely poem “Possibilities.” Our preferences, of course, hardly matter to time — we live here suspended between the time of insects and the time of stars, our transient lives bookended by not yet and never again. Time baffles us with its elasticity, the way it slows down when we’re afraid and speeds up as we age. It harrows us with its stagnancy, the way waiting twists the psyche. It haunts us with its demand for meaning. Time is the breath in the lungs of life, the marrow in the skeleton of space, the substance we are made of: “Time is a river which sweeps me along,” Borges bellows down the hallway of eternity, “but I am the river; it is a tiger which destroys me, but I am the tiger; it is a fire which consumes me, but I am the fire.”

But while we have no control over time itself, we do have a choice in how we orient to it, how we inhabit the moment, how we own the past and open to the future — a choice that shapes our entire experience of life, that ossuary of time. And just as it bears remembering that there are infinitely many kinds of beautiful lives, it bears remembering that there are infinitely many ways of being in time.

In her altogether wonderful book Weathering (public library), geologist turned psychotherapist Ruth Allen explores some of them as different ways of anchoring into our own existence.

A generation after Paul Goodman taxonomized the nine kinds of silence, Allen taxonomizes the kinds of time in a celebration of what she calls chronodiversity:

Time is so diverse, and experienced so differently between subjects in the present, that any prolonged effort to constrain what time is falls apart. There is the time of insects who live no more than a day, and the time of tortoises that outstrip our own. There is the time that for me is saved, but for you wasted. There is the time that can never be equal in an unequal world, where you can relax and I have to work or vice versa. There is the time we experience in chronological order (or chronos) but there is also the qualitative experience of “everything in its own time” time in the moment (or kairos). There is time as it is experienced at altitude, which is different from time at sea level, and there is the time that shifts and bends with longitude. There is the slow time of youth when ideas and experiences are rushing clear and fast like spring water, creating an endless and expansive present, and Christmases that never come, and the fast time of elderhood when a lack of novelty speeds life up, racing forward like an arrow to a target without hesitation or deviation. There is the time of our psychological experience, the relative time of Einstein, and now also an entropic time rooted in what physicist Carlo Rovelli calls our “quantum ignorance.” “When we have found all the aspects of time that can be spoken of, then we have found time,” Rovelli declares. For now, then, we do not know time.

Drawing on the work of Marcia Bjornerud — another uncommonly insightful geologist — and her concept of timefulness, Allen considers how living into and between these different kinds of time can help us be more fully alive and more meaningfully connected (which is, in the end, the only thing that redeems our mortality). She adds:

Time is not a resource we have for cashing in. True timefulness… is to live in awareness of the dynamic and unpredictable array of times that co-exist within one life, as well as the intersubjective nature of time between all individuals. To live it well, we may need to break the temporal norms altogether and finally come to terms with time as entirely relational and contingent upon each other in specific and localised ways. In this way, time becomes unique among individuals who co-create its meanings and who give it vibrancy and liveness through their interaction with each other.

Dive deeper — into the subject and into the body of time itself — with 200 years of reflections on time from some of humanity’s greatest minds, from Kierkegaard to Nina Simone, then savor the lovely vintage children’s book Time Is When.

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More than 100 former Republican officials who served in roles related to national security or foreign policy endorsed Vice President Kamala Harris on Wednesday, arguing her Republican rival, former president Donald Trump is “unfit to serve.” 

The group includes members of Congress and senior officials who served in the administrations of Presidents Ronald Reagan, George H.W. Bush and George W. Bush, as well as the Trump administration.

“We firmly oppose the election of Donald Trump. As President, he promoted daily chaos in government, praised our enemies and undermined our allies, politicized the military and disparaged our veterans, prioritized his personal interest above American interests, and betrayed our values, democracy, and this country’s founding documents,” the officials wrote in a letter sharing their support for the vice president. 

In the letter, the group specifically cites Trump’s actions surrounding the Jan. 6, 2021, attack on the Capitol as a reason they are not supporting him, charging that he violated his oath of office and invoking the argument that no one who puts themself over the Constitution should be president. (Trump faces federal charges related to alleged efforts to overturn the 2020 election, which culminated in the attack; he pleaded not guilty and denied any wrongdoing.)

The officials also point to Trump’s “susceptibility to flattery and manipulation” by other world leaders such as Russia’s Vladimir Putin and China’s Xi Jinping as “dangerous qualities.” 

While noting that they “expect to disagree” with Harris on policy issues, the group argues that she has demonstrated a commitment to “freedom, democracy, and rule of law,” citing her experience serving as attorney general of California, on the Senate Select Committee on Intelligence and as vice president.

Read the rest at NY1. Read the letter below.

Many gardeners are familiar with the orange bird-of-paradise plant, Strelitzia reginae.   This tropical herbaceous perennial is a common landscape plant in our area and is known for its stunning orange and blue complex flower that resembles certain tropical birds.  Did you know that this South African plant was named to commemorate the British Queen, Charlotte of Mecklenburg-Strelitz?   Our connection to Queen Charlotte and this plant is that in 1775, the British named the area that we now know as Charlotte County – “Charlotte Harbor” – after Queen Charlotte.  Queen Charlotte had a great interest in botany, and as a result, the bird of paradise was named after her in 1778.  And the rest – as they say – is history!

Available for sale at most garden centers, the orange bird of paradise shows up in almost every landscape at one time or another.  One note up front is that the bird of paradise does better – in relation to flower production and general growth – in California and Hawaii – than in Florida.  However, this should not discourage you from growing this plant as it still produces enough truly spectacular, long-lasting flowers to warrant inclusion in your landscape.  It is a slow-growing plant, so patience for the first set of flowers is required – new plants may take up to two-years to bloom.

Careful planting will ensure a better chance of flowering. Providing about six feet between plants, make sure to plant the “bird” at the same depth it was originally. Planting it too deep can cause delayed flowering. Watering is also very important after planting, as well as to promote a large crop of flowers during the blooming season.  The bird‑of‑paradise likes a sunny to part shade planting site with a compost-enriched, well‑drained soil. Interestingly enough, bird‑of‑paradise planted in partial shade grow taller with larger flowers. Those grown in full sun are smaller with shorter flowers.

Beyond the thick, waxy leaves which grow up to four feet long and make an impact in the landscape all by themselves; the flowers are the real jewel! Bracts, or colorful modified leaves, make up most of the “flower” with green, red and/or purple canoe‑like structures up to eight inches long. Within each of these bracts are small flowers of yellow or orange with a bright blue tongue. These fantastic flowers last up to two weeks as a cut flower. A mature plant can produce up to three dozen flowers over the September to May blooming season.  In addition to the normal orange and blue flowers, there are a couple of unique types to explore.  One is a yellow and blue form called ‘Mandela’s Gold’.  This cultivar is distinctly different with golden yellow spathes.  Another species of bird-of-paradise – Strelitzia juncea – offers a very different unique look.  This plant is called the leafless bird-of-paradise and features narrow reed-like foliage.

Propagation is possible using either divisions or seed.  Small plants or divisions taken from larger clumps may only take two years to bloom from transplants. However, bird of paradise grown from seeds will take up to five years to produce flowers – patience is needed in either case. An application of blood meal or controlled-release fertilizer as per label directions will help build a healthy plant.

The bird-of-paradise plant is a must have for any landscape – it is also Florida-Friendly Landscaping™ approved!  For more information on flowering plants suitable to grow in our area, or to ask a question, you can also call the Master Gardener Volunteer Helpdesk on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays from 1 to 4 pm at 764-4340 for gardening help and insight into their role as an Extension volunteer.  Ralph E. Mitchell is the Director/Horticulture Agent for UF/IFAS Extension – Charlotte County. He can be reached at 941-764-4344 or ralph.mitchell@charlottecountyfl.gov. Connect with us on social media. Like us on Facebook @CharlotteCountyExtension and follow us on Instagram @ifascharco.

Resources:
Brown, S. P. & Black, R. J. (2024) Bird-of-Paradise. The University of Florida Extension Service, IFAS.
Nassau County Blog (2017) Bird-of-Paradise. The University of Florida Extension Service, IFAS – Nassau County.
UF/IFAS Gardening Solutions (2024) Bird-of-Paradise. The University of Florida Extension Service, IFAS.
The Florida-Friendly Landscaping Guide to Plant Selection & Landscape Design (2022) The University of Florida Extension Services, IFAS.
Dave’s Garden (2021) Strelitzia, Bird of Paradise, Crane Flower ‘Mandela’s Gold.  https://davesgarden.com/guides/pf/go/54553.
Chase, L. (2024) Orange Bird of Paradise.  https://www.south-florida-plant-guide.com/orange-bird-of-paradise.html.
Moulton, M. (2024) 6 Bird of Paradise Varieties for Your Indoor and Outdoor Garden. Epic Gardening –   https://www.epicgardening.com/bird-of-paradise-varieties/.
Wikipedia (2024) Strelitzia reginae. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strelitzia_reginae#:~:text=Joseph%20Banks%20described%20the%20species,of%20a%20colourful%20exotic%20bird.
Florida Memory – State Library and Archives of Florida (2024) Queen Charlotte of Great Britain, wife of King George III.  https://www.floridamemory.com/items/show/1473

The League of Women Voters has a history of organizing debates and forums from elections for U.S. president to Kentucky governor to local school boards. But this year Republicans in Kentucky’s largest city are not accepting a local chapter’s invitations to appear on stage with their opponents.

Some of the candidates aren’t replying to inquiries at all, while others have refused and said they think the League is partisan, according to LWV Louisville leaders. 

The League says that out of contested races for 10 state House seats, two state Senate seats and seven spots on Louisville Metro Council, only one Republican — Sara-Elizabeth Cottrell in the 41st House District — has agreed to a candidate forum. Cottrell will appear alongside former Democratic state Rep. Mary Lou Marzian in an Oct. 7 forum.

Because of a LWV policy to avoid a one-sided event, both candidates must agree to participate in order for a forum to be scheduled. 

Dee Pregliasco, former president of the Louisville LWV, said one candidate accused her personally of partisanship because of a letter to the editor that she had penned. She said the letter had nothing to do with the LWV.

“My bottom line to these people is if you want people to accept your view of government, your view of the community, your view of what needs to be done, then you need to engage them,” Pregliasco said.

Democratic candidates are “willing to do it” when contacted about forums, Pregliasco said. 

Gail Henson, a co-president of the Louisville chapter, said some Republican candidates responded by saying they prefer to meet constituents one-on-one or that they are busy when a specific date had not yet been offered. 

Henson read a response to the Kentucky Lantern from one Republican representative, but did not identify them. 

“I do not consider the League of Women voters to be nonpartisan,” the candidate said. “Thank you for thinking of me, but I am not inclined to participate in your event.”

The local chapter is part of a national nonpartisan public policy organization founded amid the women’s suffrage movement. The statewide chapter is a regular advocate in Frankfort for government transparency and civic engagement. 

Ahead of the 2024 legislative session, LWV released a report that found the General Assembly has increasingly fast-tracked bills in a manner that makes citizen participation nearly impossible. That report came up in a floor debate over changing rules in the House to loosen leadership’s control. 

Henson said two candidates declined to participate because of the LWV’s stance against Amendment 2, a constitutional amendment on November’s ballot that if approved would allow the General Assembly to fund nonpublic schools with tax dollars. Henson said that the League takes positions only if they align with the organization’s national guidelines. LWV does not endorse candidates for elected office but under its guidelines may take positions on ballot issues.

Opportunity to stand before voters and compare policies

Cottrell, the GOP candidate in the 41st House District race, said she was looking forward to her forum. She added that while the district is “very heavily Democratic,” she wanted to offer an opposing viewpoint for voters. Cottrell said she had not been directed to decline participating in the forum bya lawmaker or the Republican Party. 

“I’m excited about it,” Cottrell said. “I welcome the opportunity to stand in front of voters and people who are interested in the district and compare policies between two candidates.”

“Democrats are people and Republicans are people ... we need to push back on this sense that because we're so emotionally charged about one issue or another, that it has to turn to some sort of battle.”

– Sara Elizabeth Cottrell

Cottrell said she understands why some candidates may choose to not participate in a forum or a survey because of how questions are worded. But she said has attended previous events hosted by the LWV and did not “expect there to be any bias.” She did say she has pushed back at some of the League’s stances, including its position on Amendment 2. 

“Democrats are people and Republicans are people. We have different priorities, and that causes us to take different stances,” Cottrell said. She said “we need to push back on this sense that because we’re so emotionally charged about one issue or another, that it has to turn to some sort of battle.”

Pregliasco said the League has encountered difficulties getting candidates to agree to forums the last couple of election cycles. A trend she sees is that once candidates become incumbents, they do not feel they need to participate in forums. However, the winners of any election — whether Metro Council or seats in the General Assembly — represent everyone in that district, she said.. 

“So in that sense, our strong feeling is you have an obligation to be out there and letting the public see you against whomever wants to take your job away from you,” Pregliasco said. “There needs to be some comparison.”

In Lexington last year, the local League sponsored a televised gubernatorial debate between Democratic Gov. Andy Beshear and former Republican Attorney General Danield Cameron only to be refused by GOP candidates for lower offices.

The Lexington LWV published an opinion piece in the Lexington Herald-Leader last October addressing the lack of participation from local GOP candidates for its forums.

“We firmly believe that the success of our democracy relies on an informed electorate,” Lexington LWV said at the time. “Therefore, we urge candidates running for office in future elections to participate in our community forums for the benefit of voters.”

Jonathan Levin, a spokesperson for the Kentucky Democratic Party, said in a statement that Republicans aren’t participating in the forums because they do not want “to talk about their record because they know it’s indefensible” citing policies “from removing a worker’s right to overtime pay to attacking basic reproductive freedoms.” 

“Voters deserve to know where their representatives in Frankfort stand on the issues that matter most,” Levin said. “One out of 19 Republicans being willing to talk directly to voters about their positions is sad but not much of a surprise.” 

Andy Westberry, a spokesperson for the Republican Party of Kentucky, told the Lantern that he “can’t speak to any specific individual’s schedule or whether or not they had prior commitments or scheduling conflicts on the proposed dates and times for the forums.” He also said that “Democrats frequently decline to participate in legislative forums, so I don’t think this is particularly newsworthy or unusual.”

“The most critical aspect of running a successful campaign is knocking on doors and engaging directly with voters in the district,” Westberry said. “Regardless of party affiliation, that should be a candidate’s top priority.” 

Decline in civic participation

Stephen Voss, a political science professor at the University of Kentucky, said that Republicans’ suspicion of the League “is just one symptom of what’s happened as American politics has become more polarized, especially by gender and social class.”

In the past, local chapters had members who were usually “upper status women,” both Republicans and Democrats, Voss said. But by taking positions on various issues, particularly in Kentucky politics, “there’s no doubt that they’re a progressive organization.” In addition to opposing this year’s Amendment 2, the Kentucky LWV previously opposed an anti-abortion ballot measure in 2022.

In the past, candidates were “seen as basically obligated to appear” in front of LWV chapters and other neutral organizations, Voss said. However, as Republican voters grow suspicious of such organizations, GOP politicians refusing to speak with them “resonates with voters.” 

“Being progressive politically, and therefore opposing conservative issue positions isn’t necessarily the same as being ‘partisan,’ but for a Republican to doubt they’d get a fair shake in front of an organization that’s already on record taking positions at odds with their party’s positions on a whole range of issues seems like a pretty legitimate excuse to give.” 

Participation in civic events in general is on the decline, Voss noted. 

“If you live in a city and you go to a series of political events, it’s dominated by the same set of retirees,” Voss said. “These events are rarely an effective way to broaden your exposure to the voters.” 

Pregliasco said the best times to host candidate forums are from Labor Day to the third week of October, as excused in-person early voting begins Oct. 23. She said the League would “be glad” to hear from the candidates it hasn’t gotten a response from yet as there is time left to schedule forums. 

The Louisville LVW has scheduled some forums in nonpartisan races — three Jefferson County Public School board districts and a family court judicial election.

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Written by McKenna Horsley. Cross-posted from the Kentucky Lantern.